As promised, here is an update on my little baby, Carmine.
We went to the vet on Tuesday to get an opinion on his health and to see what else we could do to help with his stress levels.
The vet noticed what I've known for years - Carmine is a *very sensitive* cat. He picks up on stress and he is stressed *very easily!*
She weighed him and he has maintained his weight (thank God!). He has been feeling lighter to me and some days he is too nervous to eat much, so I was really worried he was losing weight. She gave him an exam, too. His heart is perfect (yay!). But his teeth are not :( Carmine goes to the vet on a regular basis and they always look at his teeth, so I was disappointed to hear that he now needs 1-4 extractions, depending on how many they can clean up versus have to pull.
The vet specifically said that she doesn't want to put him through the stress of an oral surgery and recovery from extraction/s *until* the family is gone. She thinks the stress would be too much for my baby and I totally agree with her on that. She wants Carmine to come back for his dental surgery in three months. The family is *supposed* to be gone by Sept. 1. IF they keep their word (God, PLEASE let them keep their word!!!) then he will have some time to recover from this situation before we have to take him in for his surgery.
I really hope my little boy isn't in pain from his teeth. He doesn't really chew his kibbles, but he never really has crunched his kibbles the way Milita does. It concerns me that he eats on the side of his mouth when he's eating wet food sometimes.
I'd much prefer to take him in right away for the surgery to make sure he's not in any unnecessary pain, but I think the vet is right - I think we need to wait for this stressful situation to be over before we stress him with the surgery. I just hope we're doing the right thing.
She also recommended Rescue Remedy for cats for him in conjunction with the Comfort Zone deffuser for his stress/anxiety, so I'll look for that as soon as I make it over to PetSmart. I feel so helpless sometimes to help my baby. I just want to make his anxiety go away.
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